Hi everyone-
I'm a Canadian passionate about normalizing the feedism kink and also fat attraction, in the context of our highly fatphobic society. I am working on a presentation to bring to a kink con (possibly westcoast bound in Canada in 2027). Since I am a lady and a feeder, I wanted to get more perspectives from the community, with some questions. You could be a feeder, feedee, fat admirer, gainer, etc. Feel free to leave a real name or username or anon with your answers:
Q and A's from the community:
1 when did you first know you were into feedism and/or fat? Do you identify as a feedee, feeder, fat admirer, or something different altogether?
2 what was the initial draw- was it an internal fantasy, a TV show, a personal experience? Early sexual interaction?
3 Why do you think you were drawn to this? Does this tie into any other life experiences, or simply an innate preference?
4 Is this all of your sexuality, most of your sexuality, or more of a side thing?
5 Do you consider this a sexuality, kink, fetish, or your own terminology?
6 If comfortable, share some of the ways this sexuality shows up in your life, or how you engage with it.
7 How do day to day experiences compare to fantasies within this sexuality? Do you seek balance, and how do you find that balance?
8 on a more emotional and spiritual level, how do you relate to this sexuality?
9 Has societal fatphobia and misunderstandings of this kink limited your expression of this sexuality at any point or currently?
10 What are 1 (or more) myths about this community you would like to see clarified?
Anything else you’d like kinksters or the general public to know about feedism or fatsexualities?
Thank you for reading everyone
I'm a Canadian passionate about normalizing the feedism kink and also fat attraction, in the context of our highly fatphobic society. I am working on a presentation to bring to a kink con (possibly westcoast bound in Canada in 2027). Since I am a lady and a feeder, I wanted to get more perspectives from the community, with some questions. You could be a feeder, feedee, fat admirer, gainer, etc. Feel free to leave a real name or username or anon with your answers:
Q and A's from the community:
1 when did you first know you were into feedism and/or fat? Do you identify as a feedee, feeder, fat admirer, or something different altogether?
2 what was the initial draw- was it an internal fantasy, a TV show, a personal experience? Early sexual interaction?
3 Why do you think you were drawn to this? Does this tie into any other life experiences, or simply an innate preference?
4 Is this all of your sexuality, most of your sexuality, or more of a side thing?
5 Do you consider this a sexuality, kink, fetish, or your own terminology?
6 If comfortable, share some of the ways this sexuality shows up in your life, or how you engage with it.
7 How do day to day experiences compare to fantasies within this sexuality? Do you seek balance, and how do you find that balance?
8 on a more emotional and spiritual level, how do you relate to this sexuality?
9 Has societal fatphobia and misunderstandings of this kink limited your expression of this sexuality at any point or currently?
10 What are 1 (or more) myths about this community you would like to see clarified?
Anything else you’d like kinksters or the general public to know about feedism or fatsexualities?
Thank you for reading everyone
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